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CHILAX! ACROSS THE BOARD
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REALITY BYTES
The room is full of people solving maths problems… not
school kids preparing for the board exams, but college students
and professors. Maths is the most feared subject in exams and
these volunteers are trying to help students crack tough problems. |
Meanwhile, the phones keep ringing. A team
of counselors mans these lines. Here's how it goes. "I
can't solve the paper on time. How do I increase my speed?"
asks a girl appearing for the class X exams. "Attempt
sections you find easy; leave the tough ones for the end,"
advises the counsellor.
A boy appearing for the class XII exam has a query: "Should
I prepare chapter-wise or should I solve the sample papers?"
The calls continue. "How much time should I devote
to each subject?" "There are too many books
for reference…." |
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And it’s not just students who face tension. Here’s
the problem of a mother: “My son’s teachers tell
me that he’s a bright child but he doesn’t spend
enough time on studies and feels irritated when I ask him to
study.”
Each call is answered, records are kept of each collar, and
callers are encouraged to call again, In case an immediate solution
can't be given, callers are requested to call again at a specified
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ROLE OF HELPLINES
Helplines are getting an average of 100 calls per day. "Last
year, we had to take phone calls through the night, while in
bed," says Dinesh Singh of MSF. While helplines deal with
student stress, peer pressure, time management and sleeplessness,
the CBSE helpline goes beyond counseling to answer general queries
on admit card and datesheets. "We have a tale-counselling
manual for counselors to offer advice." Says Etishree Bhatti.
.....DIVYA KHANNA |
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The DT expert panel: Dinesh Singh, HoD mathematics
department, DU, and director, Mathematical Sciences Foundation
(helpline); Etishree Bhatti, counsellor, DPS RK Puram
and CBSE helpline; Jyoti Uplenchwar, counsellor, Snehi
(NGO); Meenakshi Thakkar, counsellor, CBSE helpline; Aloka
Bose, counsellor, Birla Vidya Niketan |
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TIPS FROM COUNSELLORS
Students and parents alike are on the edge of reason. But counsellors
say the world doesn't come to a standstill because of the board
exams; and even if a student doesn't do well, life will still
be normal.
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Dinesh Singh : "Even if you know nothing
today, you can be guided to score marks." |
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Etishree Bhatti : "Emotional stability is a must.
Both parents and children must work on making the family
environment conducive to studies." |
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Jyoti Uplenchwar : "Understand your biorhythm.
Identify which time of the day you concentrate best." |
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Meenakshi Thakkar : "The time you have now is very
crucial - it will never come back. Give it your 100%." |
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Aloka Bose : "Get out of the inertia syndrome:
overstretching your studying or resting time. Strike an
equilibrium" |
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The DT expert panel: Dinesh Singh, HoD mathematics department,
DU, and director, Mathematical Sciences Foundation (helpline);
Etishree Bhatti, counsellor, DPS RK Puram and CBSE helpline;
Jyoti Uplenchwar, counsellor, Snehi (NGO); Meenakshi Thakkar,
counsellor, CBSE helpline; Aloka Bose, counsellor, Birla Vidya
Niketan |
TIPS FOR STUDENTS |
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Don't fear the board exams |
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Take care of your diet. No excess tea/coffee, eat fresh
fruits and drink lots of water, take your daily dose of
multi-vitamins. |
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Get enough sleep: 6-8 hours daily. |
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Don't fall into the peer-pressure trap, work according
to your own routine and comfort. |
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Relax by taking breaks between studying, going out for
a walk, listening to music. |
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I don't know whether I'm prepared enough to answer what is
asked. Besides, there's confusion over which books to refer
to — teachers tell us to stick to NCERT books, but we're
asked to refer to other books in tuition classes. I'm worried
I won't be able to solve the entire paper on time. |
TIPS FOR PARENTS |
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Keep the atmosphere at home completely tension-free. |
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Don't nag your child to study. |
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Take care of your child's dietary needs. |
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Don't compare your child with others. |
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Listen patiently to the worries of your children, develop
a healthy bond with them. |
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During exam time, parents have a big role to play. They should
be good friends with their children, and not be overbearing,
nagging figures. It's important that parents hear out the worries
of their kids. Parents should refrain from comparing their children
with other kids. Rather, they should build up their kids' confidence.
Besides, parents must ensure their kids eat healthy, sleep healthy
at exam time. Dinesh Singh, counsellor. |
TIPS FOR TEACHER |
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Don't exert unnecessary pressure on students. |
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Be accessible to students and their problems during
exams. |
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Have faith in them; ignore their weak points, encourage
them by reminding them of their strong points. |
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Help students avoid confusion by telling them what textbook
to refer to. |
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Teach them about time management. Give them a rough
time-table. |
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Teachers must be accessible to students, specially during
exams. Since students can only turn to parents or teachers when
under pressure, it is our responsibility to be there for them.
Also, teachers can bolster confidence through pep talk. Students
can be mentally fragile, teachers must tell students to build
on their strengths. |
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